Sunday, March 01, 2009
do you have a father who is so fair that he only allows you to use the computer for just one day in a week when most people around you gets to use it almost everyday?
do you have a father who uses the computer each day of each week,including the day that you are only allowed to use on?
do you have a father who tells you that he is disappointed with you when your grades drop?
do you have a father who is so unwilling to reward you when you actually do well in your studies?
do you have a father who comes up with excuses most of the time just to say no to one of your requests?
do you have a father like this
i'm sure not all of your fathers would be able to do all of the above,tell you what,mine can....and i'm so grateful for what he has done!when my grades are like average,he can only just see the C(s)-failures and the A(s) don't matter at all.and when I actually do well,he justs keeps quiet.when i do badly,he would say something like"i don't want to scold you...you are old enough to know what to do"...what's the difference if you actually scold me?and you say the 3 of us only know how to call Mummy to do everything for us,but look,everyday when you get home,you would ask her to get you a cup of coffee and two pieces of bread...i dunno what to say already lor...you want to scold us,you wanna control us,you look at yourself first,look at the things that you need to improve on,from what i can see,there's alot,so good luck,Father!
